Three days ago, we heard the devastating news that Dennis Stauffer died in a car crash. (Dennis is the husband of Brittney, Global Training Manager at Barrett Values Centre).  Although Dennis died instantly at the scene, his decisive and selfless final action saved the life of their one year old son, Roan.

Today, I had the honour of attending the memorial service for Dennis.  It was one of the most heart-warming, uplifting, inspirational and even joyful experiences I had taken part in.  The first hymn was "Puff the Magic Dragon".  It was a poignant choice as song had been handed down from father to son as a night-time lullaby from Dennis's father and now to Roan too.

Brittney delivered a beautiful talk the special relationship that she and Dennis shared and the miracle of the little sprout, man-cub that is Roan.  Although Brittney cried her way through her whole speech she still managed to bring joy and laughter to the church with her funny memories.  Many people got up to speak today.  Parents, brothers, sisters, friends and even customers.  They all shared special stories about how Dennis had made their lives better.

Dennis is clearly loved by many people.  He was a craftsman drum builder and is recognised for the quality, innovation, artistry and sound of his remarkable custom drum kits.  "Love your drums" was more than a marketing slogan for Dennis, it was a philosophy and deeply held belief that drove his entire work ethic and positively impacted his customers, suppliers and fans.  The drum kit at the memorial church was a set Stauffer Percussion "Phattie" drums.

Many people also spoke about his kindness, positive attitude and ability to see the good in everything and everyone.  A number of times Dennis's other favourite philosophy was quoted - It's all good.  This too was a way of life.

People from around the world had sent tributes for Dennis and the drum forums and Facebook pages were alive with stories, memories and tributes from people who had been touched by Dennis's remarkable spirit.  For a man who did not like fuss, it was a wonderful irony that morning mass at the Vatican yesterday was said in memory of Dennis. 

Over the past few days, I have also been on the receiving end of an outpouring of love and care for Brittney and Roan from CTT network members in many countries.  When I saw Brittney at the church this morning, I told her that if I delivered all the hugs that had been sent, we would still be there this time tomorrow.  To those who sent them, I promise that the hugs were faithfully delivered but all in one go.

I feel honoured that I can count Dennis as a friend.  Although his time on earth was short, his impact was undeniably huge.